Reply To: Bully in the gym

Daniel Wynn

    Hi Clearingman,

    Thanks for your reply.

    Absolutely. You are being completely reasonable and, no matter what has happened in his life, you and anyone else in the gym have every right to expect respect and courtesy.

    The 2nd part of my post (in combination with what Brian suggested) is, I reckon; what will tip things for you.

    What particular behaviours and emotions are you referencing?

    Look forward to your reply,


    Hi paul,

    It's not something I completely understand, but ill explain the best I can. So in our model of reality, we have beliefs, emotions and behaviours. When we are very young we have no critical factor, so are more susceptible to suggestions. We learn them from our parents, surroundings etc in order to survive. What I'd like to know is how to address other people's emotions. Like for instance, if I see somebody getting really angry at a situation or they feel very strongly about something, it will rub off on me. That is how we learn after all, right? How do I address that?