Self worth attached to money?

[Hugo FrutosPSTEC User]

Hello, my question is about how would I need to go about this feeling/belief that I'm not worth it.

First, how would i need to word it? I haven't been worth it or I've been worthless?

Second, is that a belief or is it just an emotion?

Third, whom do I need to be worth to? myself?

Wouldn't it be that I just need external validation? or does the fact that i need external validation means that i don't love/respect myself enough?

For example:
When I'm around people that I perceive that have equal or less money than me, I feel superior. Not in a bad way where I belittle them (at least not consciously), but I feel secure that I know more than them (doesn't have to be the case 100% of the times, although, it is more likely in my country) and that I have more money so I have confidence and our interactions are usually with me in control if I want to or and I feel competent/secure/not inferior/not ashamed/not shy

When I'm around people that come from rich families or are rich, I automatically see them as superior even though logically I know they are not. I become anxious, my voice breaks if I have to talk to them and I doubt myself. I become shy and I feel literally inferior.
Same feeling happens when i go to a Fancy place (restaurant, car concessionaire, hotel, house) It is and feels as if I don't belong, I am inferior and I don't exist.

I would like to read your comments. Thanks in advance.

[Brian TuckerPSTEC User]

Hello, my question is about how would I need to go about this feeling/belief that I'm not worth it.

First, how would i need to word it? I haven't been worth it or I've been worthless?

Second, is that a belief or is it just an emotion?

Third, whom do I need to be worth to? myself?

Wouldn't it be that I just need external validation? or does the fact that i need external validation means that i don't love/respect myself enough?

For example:
When I'm around people that I perceive that have equal or less money than me, I feel superior. Not in a bad way where I belittle them (at least not consciously), but I feel secure that I know more than them (doesn't have to be the case 100% of the times, although, it is more likely in my country) and that I have more money so I have confidence and our interactions are usually with me in control if I want to or and I feel competent/secure/not inferior/not ashamed/not shy

When I'm around people that come from rich families or are rich, I automatically see them as superior even though logically I know they are not. I become anxious, my voice breaks if I have to talk to them and I doubt myself. I become shy and I feel literally inferior.
Same feeling happens when i go to a Fancy place (restaurant, car concessionaire, hotel, house) It is and feels as if I don't belong, I am inferior and I don't exist.

I would like to read your comments. Thanks in advance.

These are general not good enough beliefs.

I have to talk to them and I doubt myself. I become shy and I feel literally inferior.
Same feeling happens when i go to a Fancy place (restaurant, car concessionaire, hotel, house) It is and feels as if I don't belong, I am inferior and I don't exist.

Start here:

I'm not good enough
I doubt myself
I am shy
I am inferior
I don't belong
I am nobody
Nobody respects me
I don't exist

Also look into “I'm not worthy” and “I don't deserve” beliefs

You can use Clicktracks to work on the emotions and/or you could use belief blasters to just blast the beliefs which would make a difference if you took just those out using the 18 minute track. I bet if you took another few minutes to think about how you feel you could come up with a few more.

[shabier hassanPSTEC User]

You can use Clicktracks to work on the emotions and/or you could use belief blasters to just blast the beliefs which would make a difference if you took just those out using the 18 minute track. I bet if you took another few minutes to think about how you feel you could come up with a few more.

Hey Brian,
                your posts have helped me a lot in using PSTEC.I have noticed that you stress on using the 18-minute Belief Blaster.Is it more effective than the rest three?

[Brian TuckerPSTEC User]

The 10 and 12 minutes versions are very powerful though the 18 minute has some additional and interesting suggestions in it.

[Hugo FrutosPSTEC User]

Thank you, Brian. I'll try those

I also have the pstec positive extras, would you give me suggestions in order to use them after I'm done with the emotional part and the beliefs?

Thanks again. I really appreciate your help.

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