Reply To: Help With Identifying Belief


    Thanks for the replies. Even still, it is generally the man's role to have to courage to initiate conversation/take the risk etc. For a guy who is used to being quiet and polite, this can be extremely nerve racking, not to mention the trauma caused by actually being rejected etc. Since women don't generally initiate, a man could wait his whole life. It is crucial for a man to have confidence.

    So I'm not sure if I've found the correct root belief here. I noticed today while walking past people on the sidewalk that I averted my eyes and felt like I was bothering them and making them uncomfortable by being there (taking up their vision/space).

    So the belief there is, I'm bothering them because ……….hmm..I guess because I think I'm inferior to them..Could that be it?