Reply To: Help With Identifying Belief
“Woman want jerks” is a limiting belief.
Women want MEN. The want someone who respects them but doesn't put them on a pedestal. They want a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to get it.
Confidence/assertiveness are very positive traits and you have seem to have a limiting belief regarding them.
Does confidence/assertiveness remind you of bullies? Just something to think about.
I've been in your shoes, (severe SAD, etc), you CAN overcome this!
Hope that helps