Reply To: Painful Relationship
Jeff HardingHi Betsy!
Take a look at some of the threads in this category because there are several threads dealing with this issue of getting to move on beyond a relationship that is not healthy and, for all intents and purposes, is an addictive relationship…
http://pstecforum.com/pf/relationships-and-rejection/
This post in particular has some specifics of how you can use the PSTEC Tools for something like this…
http://pstecforum.com/pf/relationships-and-rejection/need-to-forget-about-my-ex-girlfriend-not-sure-of-the-process/
As far as making the CT's “more enjoyable” this probably has to do with some resistance to change or doubt that anything can materially change… hard to say from your post. But, a decision has to be made that this type of work is important or, dare I say, the most important work you can do. Why? Because it will dictate how you think, talk and take action in Life, so, in effect, it determines your future… determines your purpose… and, determines your level of JEEP in Life!
When you shift your mind model… shift your perception … not only can you see a relationship as “ideal” for you, but you will also be able to walk away from those and, to top it all off, you will not only attract, but take action on ideal relationships in business, work and your personal life.
If you get “stuck” find a practitioner to help you along to target the aspects of your mind more effectively and, in some ways, help to keep you moving ahead in the direction you desire rather than wallowing in environments and situations that, in Truth, you know you ought to not be a part of… that is, if you are interested in your Highest Good! 
Aloha!
Jeff