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Peter Bunyan

    Hi Boobinsko

    Assuming this is a Negative statement, 'People laugh at me behind my back'.

    It could be countered with;

    “But they might not be, they might be joking about something else”

    “This is my own insecurity “speaking””

    “I do not have to feel anything about what they say”

    “I can be strong enough to not care what they say”

    “What they think and say is their problem”

    Sort of emotional defence, if not entirely logical in the precise sense of opposite to the Negative statement.