Reply To: Really struggling with not being able to have sex
remember what buddha said: whatever you resist, persists!
and also christ: do not resist evil!
i would go ahead and do some BB on the metastructure of your problem, which has a super ego nature (culture impossitions):
– sex was bad/wrong
– thinking about sex was bad/wrong
– wanting to have sex was bad/wrong
– desiring women sexually was bad/wrong
– having sex with women was bad/wrong
– i was bad/wrong for wanting sex.
– i was bad/wrong for having sex
– fucking women was bad/wrong
– having tons of sex with women was bad/wrong
and add some PQT to that
– sex is always good and a beautiful thing
– having sex is always good for me from now on
– having sexual desires is always natural and OK to me