PP Wording

[Troy ThomasonPSTEC User]

I've found that my success in the social and dating realm is when I feel like my “cup is full”. It eradicates any and all anxiety and I have a lot of success in making friends etc.

I want to come from a place where I feel like I have an abundance of friends and dating options regardless of circumstances. How can I word that into a PP statement?

Here's what I've come up with:

“When I go to the club, I feel like my cup is full/I feel happy and satisfied”

[NickRPSTEC User]

A PP statement I've been using to great effect is “I'm totally at ease in the presence of other's”. It's had a pronounced effect on my body language and whole demeanour.

[Troy ThomasonPSTEC User]

Thanks Nick! That's a great one. I'll definitely work on that today.

[Troy ThomasonPSTEC User]

Jeff or Tim, I would love your input.

Bottom line, I have the most success when I feel like I have an abundance of friends/girlfriends contrary to my current results.

What PP statement would I need to use?

“When I go to the club, I feel incredibly successful with women” ?

Thanks in advance.

[Troy ThomasonPSTEC User]

I guess I'll answer my own question. 

I've been using PP on “I am the prize” and it's been getting rid of a lot of social problems.

[Troy ThomasonPSTEC User]

Thanks for the input!

[Jeff HardingPSTEC Pro and Forum Moderator]

Great work both Nick and Troy… the answers are always there if we take some “quiet time” and search our mind.  You know what you want consciously, so jot that down, and then notice what comes up from the subconscious that is contrary and address the emotions, beliefs and behaviors with the appropriate PSTEC Tool.  Simple really!

Also, Nick, good one… “I'm totally at ease in the presence of others”
… you could also use the “If then” syntax…

“When I am in the presence of others I am totally at ease”

Or, when you find the type of people that intimidate you most… let's say; wealthy people or beautiful people… do it like this…

“When I am with wealthy people I am totally at ease”
“When I am with a beautiful _____  I am totally at ease”

Keep up the good work… er … play!

Aloha nui!
Jeff

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