Reply To: New Aspects in Problematic Relationship

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AvatarJeff Harding
PSTEC Pro and Forum Moderator

Hey, I don't call 'em breadcrumbs for nothing.  Veeeerrrry nice work, my dear!  It usually just takes a little quiet and listening time to hear the clues come out from the sub… such a willing partner if we trust it… trust ourselves.

Now, CT on those old relationships … start with the one that is either oldest and/or most intense and see if letting go of that one releases all the others.

Then, fun stuff, see how your perception and relationship shifts with the current person … if there is still some intensity, go back to the CT's and see what else is there.  Use this person as a barometer of where you are on the issue.

Hey, nice CT'ing on the post title… all fixed for ya!  ;D

Aloha!

Jeff