Reply To: New Aspects in Problematic Relationship
Hey, I don't call 'em breadcrumbs for nothing. Veeeerrrry nice work, my dear! It usually just takes a little quiet and listening time to hear the clues come out from the sub… such a willing partner if we trust it… trust ourselves.
Now, CT on those old relationships … start with the one that is either oldest and/or most intense and see if letting go of that one releases all the others.
Then, fun stuff, see how your perception and relationship shifts with the current person … if there is still some intensity, go back to the CT's and see what else is there. Use this person as a barometer of where you are on the issue.
Hey, nice CT'ing on the post title… all fixed for ya!