Reply To: Just want to say thank you

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AvatarJeff Harding
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You're always welcome!

When it comes to issues like your fear of a relationship not working out, delve a bit deeper by asking, “Why am I bothered or fearful of it not working out?”  It's not the loss of the relationship that is fearful (not as the source of it) but what will be missing when the relationship is gone that is bothersome.  Find out what you are trying to fulfill through the relationship because there is something missing that you can “correct” in your mind so that you don't have to be dependent upon another person, place or thing for comfort.  When you get closer to that imperturbability, you will find your mind and, therefore, life opening up to more experiences and the ability to enjoy them more freely!

Malama Pono!
Jeff