Reply To: Should I poke into painful triggers?
Thanks for sharing and being so open. Sounds like you are getting on just fine and you're “gonna be alright”. Keep on Clicking!
Re “Commitment Phobia”. Fear of success is just as damaging as fear of failure, it is likely the subconscious doing it's protective thing by attempting to keep the status quo. Also likely is a low self-esteem issue “this is going too well, I don't deserve it” leading to self-sabotage.
Understanding helps lead to forgiveness both of self and the other, this being a part of “getting over it”.