Reply To: Counterdependency – The Invisible Intimacy, Career and Money Destroyer

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June 24, 2019 at 3:54 pm#26071
Brian Tucker
PSTEC User

    Yes. Some of them you will need to break down because they are “complex” beliefs

    e.g. I can’t let anyone too close they’ll just disappoint me

    I can’t let anyone too close
    people/others disappoint me
    People I love disappoint me

    etc.

    Great PQT suggestions to help are:

    I now definitely notice myself feeling completely secure and safe about relationships
    I now realize relationships are absolutely safe because I feel completely secure