Reply To: Becoming an alpha male with PSTEC
Paul McCabeHi Ej,
Thanks for your post.
Here's a thread that gives some excellent suggestions about this topic:
http://pstecforum.com/pf/confused-and-not-sure-where-to-start/what-process-should-i-be-following/
Be very clear on what a confident, attractive, successful leader looks like. How would YOU embody that?
I think it is so important to make that real for yourself, and also to be clear on the WHY underneath it all.
What would it give you that you feel you currently lack?
You are, I sense, on the right track (no pun intended) in CTing the feelings of insecurity, neediness and anger.
In addition to this, I would recommend using the Belief Blaster to eliminate the sort of beliefs that might get in the way of your goals.
Look at core beliefs such as:
“I was unattractive”
“I was weak”
“I was not good enough”
“I was a failure”
“I didn't matter”
“I was not acceptable”
“I was not important”
“I was not OK”
“I was not safe in this world”
Say each belief statement out loud and, if it feels true, heavy or painful, it would indicate you hold it on a subconscious level and then you could blast it.
Eliiminating beliefs like that would be very effective in shifting how you feel about yourself and how you behave in the world.
With the beliefs, it tends to be much more effective to go for the core. So, the pattern (if you will) is insecurity. You would be looking for the type of beliefs that would create that pattern. For example, “I am insecure, because…”
With the PQTs, aim for 7-12 words in the statement for maximum efficacy.
Please let us know how you get on with this.
All the best,
Paul 
Using the CTs, BB and PQT is an excellent protocol.
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