Reply To: My mother is narcissist
My mother told in another room, so I can hear: Without me, he will die of hunger. That hurted me a lot. I felt bad. That is also belittling and she is doing that “tactics” intentionally to me, many times. I don’t know how to deal with it.
On the other hand, my father was ignoring me. He almost never address directly to me or talking to me. Only sometimes officially, like some clerk. He died 20 years ago, but I still have problem how to speak to some stranger. Or even to people I know.