I did not have the time to move through the entire thread, but, most likely, there are beliefs that are “re-creating” the emotional reactions once again.
The CT's can go a long way, many times, to also help shift beliefs when you neutralize the emotions, but also beliefs can be very strong and well embedded and must be shifted to allow you to shift to a completely new mind model.
Remember, the mind model consists of emotions, beliefs and behaviors. At some point and for some… maybe many … issues, you will have to address them all.
For beliefs, your best tools are PSTEC Negative and PSTEC Positive.
Aloha!
Jeff