Seeking Approval

  • This topic is empty.
Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • #21661
    AvatarTroy Thomason
    PSTEC User

    The number one problem I have with interacting with new people is wanting/seeking their approval. I intellectually know that approval comes from within, and I've reduced a lot with the click tracks, but I still have the problem. What kind of belief can I internalize with PP or clear with PN to change this?

    One belief I could try is “everybody likes me”.

    Any input is welcome!

    #23745
    Avatarrequin
    PSTEC User

    Seeking approval is based on insecurity, right?  So maybe you could think about that..and find a way to use PS Neg to get rid of unwanted beliefs about being insecure.

    Then do a PS Positive saying, “I am confident and secure” or something like that.

    Just a thought.

    #23746
    AvatarTroy Thomason
    PSTEC User

    It's wanting the interaction to go well, and caring what they think of me.

    I did “I love and accept myself completely” a few weeks ago, and that helped a ton.

    I guess I go into interactions trying to “win people over”.

    #23747
    Avatarrequin
    PSTEC User

    i like that one.  May I use it?  ;)

    #23748
    AvatarTroy Thomason
    PSTEC User

    I think I may have cleared this. I did PN on “I'm annoying” and “I'm a failure”, and I noticed big shifts!

    #23749
    AvatarLisa
    PSTEC User

    That's great Troy!! I think it's great when we are able to find the right words that let us escape from the limiting beliefs we have put on our self.

Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total)
  • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.