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- October 3, 2014 at 3:13 pm#21661Troy ThomasonPSTEC User
The number one problem I have with interacting with new people is wanting/seeking their approval. I intellectually know that approval comes from within, and I've reduced a lot with the click tracks, but I still have the problem. What kind of belief can I internalize with PP or clear with PN to change this?
One belief I could try is “everybody likes me”.
Any input is welcome!October 3, 2014 at 3:25 pm#23745requinPSTEC User
Seeking approval is based on insecurity, right? So maybe you could think about that..and find a way to use PS Neg to get rid of unwanted beliefs about being insecure.
Then do a PS Positive saying, “I am confident and secure” or something like that.
Just a thought.October 3, 2014 at 4:13 pm#23746Troy ThomasonPSTEC User
It's wanting the interaction to go well, and caring what they think of me.
I did “I love and accept myself completely” a few weeks ago, and that helped a ton.
I guess I go into interactions trying to “win people over”.October 3, 2014 at 4:15 pm#23747requinPSTEC User
i like that one. May I use it?October 4, 2014 at 4:49 pm#23748Troy ThomasonPSTEC User
I think I may have cleared this. I did PN on “I'm annoying” and “I'm a failure”, and I noticed big shifts!October 4, 2014 at 6:39 pm#23749LisaPSTEC User
That's great Troy!! I think it's great when we are able to find the right words that let us escape from the limiting beliefs we have put on our self.
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